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		<title>How To Communicate With Your Loved One With Memory Problems</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:58:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Alzheimer's]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good communication can decrease or even prevent many behavior problems.  So what’s the best way to communicate with your loved one? The number one tip to remember is to treat your loved one as an individual with a disease, not a diseased individual. He has&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Good communication can decrease or even prevent many behavior problems.  So what’s the best way to communicate with your loved one?</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> The number one tip to remember is to treat your loved one as an individual with a disease, not a diseased individual. He has an entire history of life that stays with him throughout this journey. He will continue to have many of the same characteristics he had before. If he was laid back before, he may be more so now. If he had high energy/anxiety, he may be tightly wound now as well.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> All people need to have their feelings validated. A person with Alzheimer’s is no different. In fact, because of memory loss and insecurity issues, he or she may need it even more. An example: Your father who has Alzheimer’s is angry with your husband most of the time. They have had a great relationship in the past, but now your father blames him for everything. As difficult as it is, keep in mind that it’s the dementia talking, not your father. You can say, “I don’t blame you for being angry” and then move on. What he is feeling is real to him, even if it is not accurate. You will probably have to coach your husband as well. Let him know that this action isn’t against him personally; it is the nature of the illness and “this too shall pass.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> Individuals with Alzheimer’s respond well to affirmation. When they do anything, no matter how insignificant it may be to you, praise them with “good job” or “thank you.” </span></span><br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Other tips:<br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">When beginning a conversation, identify yourself. If your loved one says </span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">“I know who you are,” laugh or say something humorous. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> Slow down when you speak and use short simple sentences.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Ask one question at a time. Give adequate time for response.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Yes/no questions are best.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">When speaking, maintain eye contact.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Lower the tone of your voice; a high pitch may be interpreted as anger.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Eliminate distracting noise.<span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Turn off the TV or radio, or go to another room to talk. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> Smile and be pleasant. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> Use touch to get attention (hand on shoulder, hand on knee, hand on hand).<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">When your loved one is upset and you can’t communicate, try a hug.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Soon anger will be forgotten and you can try again.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Be aware of their body language. A sudden sit-to-stand change in position may indicate the need to go to the bathroom or some other kind of discomfort.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Be aware of your body language too &#8211; try not to appear tense.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Don’t argue.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Don’t order the person around or be condescending.<br />
</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Don’t talk about your loved one as if he isn’t there;</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">You never know just how aware he might be.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>You can find out more information on caring for a loved one at:</strong></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><a href="http://www.DallasMemoryLawyer.com" target="_blank">www.DallasMemoryLawyer.com</a> </strong></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong> </strong>or go to </span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><a href="http://www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com" target="_blank">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com</a></strong></span></span></p>
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		<title>Young Onset Alzheimer’s &#8230; When Should You Worry?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 20:23:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The youngest known diagnosis of Alzheimer’s was age 28.  While it is very rare to develop the disease this young, what’s considered Young Onset (also called Early Onset) Alzheimer’s is when someone develops the disease before the age of 65.  It is estimated that only&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="background-color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="background-color: #ffffff;"><span style="color: #000000;">The youngest known diagnosis of Alzheimer’s was age 28.  While it is very rare to develop the disease this young, what’s considered Young Onset (also called Early Onset) Alzheimer’s is when someone develops the disease before the age of 65.  It is estimated that only about 5% of the approximately 5 million Alzheimer’s disease cases were diagnosed under age 65.</span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> Alois Alzheimer was credited with identifying the disease first, and that case was a woman who was 51 years old.  The youngest I have ever known personally was age 54 when I met her, though she had been diagnosed a few years earlier.  I personally have worked with many people in their 50’s and 60’s with Alzheimer’s disease or a related dementia – and remember, dementia isn’t always Alzheimer’s disease.  Sometimes it’s caused by Huntington’s, Frontotemporal Lobe damage, or Lewy Body Disease, which are all often mistaken as Alzheimer’s, though doctors are now pretty adept at identifying the differences and not just lumping them into the Alzheimer’s category.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> I like to focus on helping caregivers enjoy the time they have with their loved ones who have the disease and protect their assets so they live the rest of their lives with dignity.  We can’t spend our lives worrying about what might happen, but we do have the choice to respond positively when something like this does happen. However, it is quite important to physicians, as there are differing medications that can make a significant impact in a person’s medical treatment.  What is very important is to know that a person with Alzheimer’s is still a person, and you can still have a relationship with them regardless of their age or disability.  In addition, it is very important as a concerned party that you take care of yourself &#8211; and one of the best ways to do that is to get involved in a caregiver support group. If you’re looking for a support group, give my office a call at (800) 939-9093&#8230; we can help get you in touch with the right people to take care of yourself.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Also, check out our &#8220;Alzheimer&#8217;s Resource Center&#8221;  great information and better yet it is FREE to you or anyone else. Just click this link <a href="http://www.DallasMemoryLawyer.com" target="_blank">www.DallasMemoryLawyer.com</a> put in you name and e-mail address in order to get instant access to this tremendous resource for caregivers, both professional and family. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">It will help give a better understanding of how to better care for your loved one. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> You can also go to <a href="http://www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com" target="_blank">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com</a> for additional information.  Should you have any questions please give us a call at 1-800-939-9093.</span></span></p>
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		<title>VA Aid and Attendance Workshop</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 22:49:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Alzheimer's]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[For many American Veterans, the rising cost of assisted living or home health care can be staggering. The good news is that there is a little-known VA benefit that can help you get the care you need without using up all of your hard-earned savings.&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">For many American Veterans, the rising cost of assisted living or home health care can be staggering.</span></strong></p>
<p><em><strong><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">The good news is that there is a little-known VA benefit that can help you get the care you need without using up all of your hard-earned savings.</span></strong><br />
</em></p>
<p><strong>Hi, I am Elder Law Attorney Richard Barron, and I have spent countless hours helping people in our area receive quality health care while legally protecting their family’s assets.</strong></p>
<p><strong>It never ceases to amaze me when I talk to the families of veterans how little they understand the VA’s benefit programs that are available to those honorably discharged veterans who are over 65 and are struggling with the cost of their care.</strong></p>
<p><strong>If you or a member of your family is an honorably discharged veteran who served at least one day during a period of wartime (the definition of “wartime” may be broader than you think), and if you are in an assisted living facility or are spending several hundred dollars a month or more on the cost of your health care, then you may qualify for benefits under the</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">VA Aid and Attendance Pension Program</span></strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>To learn more about the benefits you may be missing out on, I would like to offer you a <span style="background-color: #ffff00;">FREE</span> Veterans Workshop designed for Veterans, Single Surviving Spouse of a Veteran, the Family </strong><strong>of the V</strong><strong>eteran, and friends of Veterans on</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Plano, Texas<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">Here are Just Some o</span></em></strong><strong><em><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">f the Secrets I Reveal in this FREE Workshop…</span></em></strong></p>
<ul>
<li style="text-align: left;"><strong>How you may qualify for a benefit of up to $2,019/month</strong></li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><strong>How the widow of a veteran may qualify for a benefit of up to $1,094/month<br />
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<li style="text-align: left;"><strong>The asset and income limitations that you must meet in order to become eligible</strong></li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><strong>Plus, you’ll learn how to protect your eligibility for Medicaid, should you need long-term nursing home care</strong></li>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Ready to Learn More? </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Than reserve you seat now, seating is limited and is on a first-come, first-served basis, </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>so call us at<span style="background-color: #ffff00;"> 1-800-939-9093</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong><strong>and </strong><strong>bring a family member or friend, </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>but you have to call us and reserve your seats today! <a href="http://www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com" target="_blank">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com</a></strong></p>
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		<title>Eligibility Verification Reports (EVRs) are DUE Soon</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 16:56:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Estate Planning]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is an EVR? The Eligibility Verification Report is an annual report due no later than March 1st of each year for beneficiaries who are receiving the Improved Pension commonly referred to as  Aid &#38; Attendance. Because eligibility for this program is based on disability status&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: medium;">What is an EVR?</span></span></strong><strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong> </strong><strong>The Eligibility Verification Report is an annual report due no later than March 1st of each year for beneficiaries who are receiving the Improved Pension commonly referred to as  Aid &amp; Attendance.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> Because eligibility for this program is based on disability status and financial criteria, the VA must ensure that the beneficiary remains eligible from year to year. </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">The EVR provides a report of actual income and dependency status in order to verify that the payment the beneficiary is receiving is correct.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: medium;">What are the required forms to complete and return to the VA?</span></span></strong><strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong> </strong><strong>The VA will send the required forms to the beneficiary in late December or early January. One of the following forms should be completed, based on the type of beneficiary:</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">21-0510 EVR Instructions</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">21-0516-1 Improved Pension EVR (veteran without children)</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">21-0517-1 Improved Pension EVR (veteran with children)</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">21-0518-1 Improved Pension EVR (surviving spouse without children)</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">21-0519s-1 Improved Pension EVR (surviving spouse with children)</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">In addition to the forms, the beneficiary must also complete a Medical Expense Report on VA Form 21P-8416 </span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>(NOTE: THIS FORM WAS UPDATED DECEMBER</strong><strong> </strong><strong>2011). This form must be completed twice. The first one is to report actual medical expenses paid out of pocket by the beneficiary during the EVR reporting period. The second one is for the beneficiary to report the next 12 month&#8217;s projected medical expenses. This form must also be signed by the beneficiary or the fiduciary if one has been appointed.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Is Anyone Exempt from Filing an EVR?</span></span></strong><strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong> </strong><strong>Annual EVRs are not required for Improved Pension recipients who have no countable income, or whose only countable income is from VA or Social Security. However, filing an EVR may be helpful even in this situation if the beneficiary is not receiving the maximum VA pension due to the amount of medical expenses projected at the beginning of the year. If the medical expenses increased throughout the year, or if the beneficiary paid out of pocket for medical expenses that are not considered &#8220;recurring&#8221; (i.e. doctor co-pays, prescriptions, travel expenses, hearing aids, expenses related to burial of spouse or dependent child, etc.), then these expenses can be reported on the EVR and the VA will recalculate what the monthly pension should have been. If the pension amount for prior months should have been higher based on the medical expenses reported in the EVR, the VA will pay a lump sum payment to the beneficiary for the appropriate amount.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Termination of Benefits.</strong></span></span><strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong> </strong><strong>If a person does not return the EVR, benefits will be terminated as of the beginning of the EVR reporting period. Because of that, the beneficiary will receive notice that the VA overpaid them and, thus, they will owe the money they received back to the VA. Most are usually not able to return the money because it has been spent on their high cost of medical care. It is essential that the EVR is returned by March 1st, that it is completed accurately, and that it is signed by either the beneficiary of the benefits or by the fiduciary if</strong><strong> </strong><strong>one has been appointed.</strong></span></p>
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		<title>Veterans Aid &amp; Attendance Frequently Asked Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 17:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Veterans Benefits Barron Law Firm Phone: 800-939-9093 Frequently Asked Questions and Answers Do I Have to be Already Living in an Assisted Living Community Before I Apply? No, it is not necessary to be living in assisted living in order to apply for VA benefits;&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Veterans Benefits</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Barron Law Firm</span></span></span></strong></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: large;">Phone: <span style="text-decoration: underline;">800-939-9093</span></span></span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Frequently Asked Questions and Answers</span></strong></span></span></span></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Do I Have to be Already Living in an Assisted Living Community Before I Apply?</span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">No, it is not      necessary to be living in assisted living in order to apply for VA      benefits; however, if you are in need of personal assistance, the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">entire      cost</span> of assisted living helps to qualify you for benefits, but you      must be a current resident to submit these expenses as a deduction off      income.</span></span></strong></li>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Who Can Help Me Fill Out the Forms?</span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Any private      individual may assist with completing the forms; however, this individual      is allowed to assist ONLY one person.       A VA accredited Agent, such as your local State Veterans Office,      VFW, or American Legion may help you, as well as any Attorney.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">NO-ONE</span> may charge you for helping      you prepare or present the VA application forms, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">but you should be sure      that the person understands VA.</span></span></span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">What are the Advantages of Having an Attorney Assist Me?</span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">An attorney      may assist you with much more than just the VA application, such as making      sure that all of your assets are in order to help prevent a denial of your      claim and with other paperwork that might be needed to help prove your      claim.  In addition, the attorney must      be certified through the VA and as such, can represent you before the VA      if your claim is denied or if the award is incorrect.</span></span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">How Long Does It Take to Find Out if I am Eligible? </span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">An attorney should      be able to give you an idea of your qualification within thirty minutes; however,      in order to be absolutely certain that you qualify, the attorney would      need to review all of you financial, personal, military, and medical      records. </span></span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">How Long Does It Take for Me to Get My First Check?</span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Once an      application is turned into the VA, it can take anywhere from five to eight      months on average to get your check if you are approved for benefits.  If you have dementia or other memory      loss issues, the VA will insist on meeting you and a family member before      sending you a check, so your claim may take six to twelve months to      settle.</span></span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Does the Money Come to Me or Straight to the Assisted Living Facility?</span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">All benefits      are paid to the claimant and not to any facility.</span></span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Can I Have It Wired Directly Into My Bank Account?</span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Yes, the VA      actually prefers to have all checks directly deposited into a bank      account.  If you have memory loss      issues, the VA will insist on a direct deposit.</span></span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Is It Retroactive Back to When I First Applied or Does It Start the Day/Month I Get Approved?</span></span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Benefits are      retroactive from the first day of the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">next</span> month after the VA      receives your application <span style="text-decoration: underline;">OR</span> your first notice that you are filing      an application.  An attorney can      help you preserve this Informal Award Date.</span></span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">In order for the benefits to be retroactive, you must live at least thirty-one days from the date that the VA received your application or Informal Request.  In addition: if you are filing an Informal Request, you must be alive when the rest of the application is submitted and you have one year from the date of the Request to get the rest of your application into the VA.</span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">For more information please go to our web site at </span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com" target="_blank">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com </a></span></span></span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">or go to </span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://www.TexasVeteransBenefits.com" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>www.TexasVeteransBenefits.com </strong></span></a></span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">and sign up for our FREE e-mail course on Veterans Aid &amp; Attendance.</span></span></strong></p>
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		<title>Veterans Aid &amp; Attendance Qualification &amp; New Payment Amounts</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 16:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Veterans Benefits General Qualifications for Non-Service Connected Aid and Attendance Veteran, Widowed Spouse, and Dependent or Disabled Child (Any May be a Claimant) Veteran Must have Served at Least Ninety Days Active Duty with One Day of the Ninety During a Qualified War Period (Ninety&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #000000;">Veterans Benefits</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">General Qualifications for Non-Service Connected</span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Aid and Attendance</span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> </span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Veteran, Widowed Spouse, and Dependent or Disabled Child </span></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000000;">(Any May be a Claimant)</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> </span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Veteran      Must have Served at Least Ninety Days Active Duty with One Day of the      Ninety During a Qualified War Period (Ninety Days Must Generally be      Consecutive, with Some Exceptions)</strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Veteran      Must have had an “Other Than Dishonorable Discharge”</strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Claimant’s      Physician Must Declare Him/Her as Housebound and in Need of Assistance      from Another Individual, Which May Include Services Offered by Assisted      Living </strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Claimant      Should have Less than $80,000.00 in Household Assets; Excluding Primary Home,      Car, and Personal Belongings (If Assets are Jointly Owned by Other than      Spouse, Only the Claimant’s Share is Generally Countable.  In the Case of a Married Veteran, Both      His/Her Assets are Countable.  Although $80k is Typically the Asset Cap, the VA May Also      Consider the Claimant’s Life Expectancy and Demand Lower Total Assets.  In the Case of Excessive Assets, It May      be Best to Consult an Elder Law Attorney)</strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Claimant’s      Household Out-of-Pocket Yearly Medical Expenses Must Exceed or Come Close      to His/Her Total Yearly Household Gross Income (Total Yearly Cost of      Assisted Living is Typically Considered a Medical Expense)</strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Widowed      Spouse Must have been Married to the Veteran for at Least One Year, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">OR</span> have had Children by the Veteran if Married Less than One Year, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">AND</span> Never Remarried </strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Widowed      Spouse Must have been Living with the Veteran at the Time of the Veteran’s      Death, Unless the Separation was Due to Medical or Military Reasons (There      May be Some Exceptions Related to Separations Due to Abuse)</strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Minor      or Disabled Adult Children May Qualify for Limited Benefits on Their Own</strong></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>2012 Maximum Pension Rates for Aid and Attendance</strong></span></span></span></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">Single Veteran                                     $1,704.00 Per Month or</span></strong></span></p>
<p><strong style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Married Veteran                                   $2,020.00 Per Month </span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Widowed Spouse                                  $1,095.00 Per Month</span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></strong><strong style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">Veteran Married to Veteran                  $2,631.00 Per Month</span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong><br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Barron Law Firm</strong></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">209 E. Main St. Whitesboro, Texas 76273 </span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> or </span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">1400 Preston Rd., Suite 400, Plano, Texas 75093</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">903-564-3663 or 800-939-9093</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://www.texaselderlawattorney.com/" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com</span></span></a></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;">**<span style="text-decoration: underline;">Note</span>:  Each VA Claim is Unique and the Above Criteria is Generic in Nature and May Not be Applicable to Each Claimant.</span></strong></p>
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		<title>Warning: Medicaid is Not A Do-it-Yourself Project</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your loved one with Alzheimer’s will likely one day need nursing home care,and in order to make that possible, many families need to rely on Medicaid to help pay the bills.  Just remember, Medicaid is not a Do-It-Yourself (DIY). A simple mistake could cost you&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Your loved one with Alzheimer’s will likely one day need nursing home care,and in order to make that possible, many families need to rely on Medicaid to help pay the bills.  Just remember, Medicaid is not a Do-It-Yourself (DIY). A simple mistake could cost you everything. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
Medicaid is a complicated process, with its own set of definitions for seemingly self-explanatory words. Self-help Medicaid planning is a mistake that can result in the loss of thousands &#8211; even tens of thousands of dollars. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> Let me tell you a story of a professional accountant. He&#8217;s trained in something that seems similar to Medicaid &#8211; the area of income tax, gift tax, estate tax, and governmental audits of finances.</span></span></p>
<p>This highly skilled individual, whose mother with Alzheimer’s needed Medicaid benefits, read and analyzed the written regulations of Medicaid in his state and used his understanding of tax law to interpret the facts.</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;">He then took some actions to save BIG money. He transferred $500,000 to an irrevocable trust. Then he began paying for his mother&#8217;s care through what he thought was the Medicaid waiting period. Finally, he filled out a Medicaid application and submitted it. While he was filling out the application, he checked an innocent little box which asked a seemingly obvious question<strong>: &#8220;Do you wish to apply for ALL Medicaid benefits to which you are entitled?&#8221; </strong>He answered &#8220;yes&#8221; &#8211; but as it turned out, that was the wrong answer. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> &#8220;Yes&#8221; seemed like the right answer in this case. After all, why wouldn&#8217;t you apply for all the benefits available to you? Because of his mother&#8217;s specific set of circumstances, unfortunately, the Medicaid application was not submitted at the right time. So the Medicaid department was then able to count the $500,000 transfer as a gift, and they composed a penalty period of ineligibility of more than 100 months, over 8 years! A &#8220;little&#8221; error is easy to make by anyone who does not work in the area of Medicaid. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> This is why I urge you to go to a qualified Elder Law attorney. Choose someone who practices in the area of Medicaid and longevity planning on a daily basis. The story above is a perfect illustration that when it comes to Medicaid, words may not mean what you think they mean. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> For example, the words &#8216;gross income&#8217; have completely different definitions in tax laws, public benefits, federal income tax, Social Security Disability Insurance, state income tax, Veteran&#8217;s benefits, and Supplemental Security Income. If a simple word like &#8220;income&#8221; does not mean the same thing in different areas of laws and regulations, how can anyone who is unfamiliar with Medicaid provide someone with trustworthy guidance? </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> Don&#8217;t trust your life savings, or the health of your dear loved one, to someone who doesn&#8217;t know the ins-and-outs of Medicaid law. Our firm is an experienced and trustworthy guide in the area of Medicaid. We are dedicated to helping our clients live with dignity, instead of living on just a dollar or two a day. Let us help you. Call our offices at 800-939-9093.<br />
</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> To find out who is Fluent in Elder Law, and what questions you need to ask to make sure they are a trustworthy guide, visit <a href="http://www.alzheimershope.com/where_get_help/identify_elderlaw_attorney.php" target="_blank">www.AlzheimersHope.com/where_get_help/identify_elderlaw_attorney.php</a> </span></span><span style="font-size: medium;">to read up on the subject&#8230; it will help you make the best decision.  You can also go to <a href="http://www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com" target="_blank">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com</a>.</span></p>
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		<title>Is Mom Still Driving?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 13:04:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we’re 16 and get those keys for the first time, it’s a thrilling, life-changing event.  But when your loved one has started to have memory problems, it can become the grayest of areas – should they be driving or not?  At what point does&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">When we’re 16 and get those keys for the first time, it’s a thrilling, life-changing event.  But when your loved one has started to have memory problems, it can become the grayest of areas – should they be driving or not?  At what point does it become a danger to them and others on the road?  The issue of driving is a tricky one for caregivers and their loved ones.  Your loved one has been independent all of their adult life, and driving is one of the biggest indicators of that independence.  However, there is a solution to the driving debate.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span id="more-1139"></span> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> To find out whether your loved one should still be driving, you may want to have them take a test.  Almost all medical centers that have an occupational therapist available are able to do driving evaluations.  The test may cost a bit and is usually not covered by insurance, but it clearly determines if a person has the physical and mental capacity to drive safely. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> If your loved one is confused or having memory issues and you’re just not sure what the right decision is, this type of test will reassure you that you have a responsibility to not let her drive.  If she is not confused during the test, then this will allow her to make an informed decision on her own about whether or not she should drive.  (Don’t be surprised, especially if your loved one is still very “with it” most of the time, if she challenges you to take the test as well.)</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> Another option that I heard about just this week is a new service from the Area Agency on Aging. Volunteers at some senior centers are providing coaching for people who need to take a driving test to lower their insurance rates.  This is worth an inquiry – you can contact your local chapter to see if it’s a service they provide. If they have instituted this program locally, then you might be able to have the driving test done for free.  One big thing to note about this test, though, is that since it’s attached to the motor vehicle department, if your loved one does NOT pass the driving test, their driver’s license and insurance will both be suspended. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"> A simple test can solve the problem of driving&#8230; although it’s never an easy conversation to have. For more information on how to have that discussion and help your loved one make informed decisions about driving, please refer to my manual, </span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>“When to Take The Keys Away” </strong></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">at </span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="http://www.alzheimersresourcekit.com/barron/resources/safedriving.html" target="_blank"><strong>www.AlzheimersResourceKit.com/barron/resources/safedriving.html</strong></a> </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">in my Alzheimer’s Resource Center.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Also see <a href="http://www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com" target="_blank">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com</a></strong></span></p>
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		<title>Do You Feel Unappreciated?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 21:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Why don’t I get any appreciation from Jack now that he has Alzheimer’s?” I overheard a caretaker say recently.  “I do so much for my husband, and he used to be so gracious.  Now he just snaps at me all the time.” A very basic&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">“Why don’t I get any appreciation from Jack now that he has Alzheimer’s?” I overheard a caretaker say recently.  “I do so much for my husband, and he used to be so gracious.  Now he just snaps at me all the time.”</span></strong></span><span id="more-1131"></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong> A very basic explanation of how this disease process works is that the Alzheimer’s sufferer is unable to keep track of the most recent events that occur in his life.  Unfortunately, everything you do for your loved one is in the here-and-now, and he cannot show appreciation for something he cannot even remember occurred.  But why does he expect more and more from you? It’s quite impossible to do enough.  The answer to this is actually the same: he can’t recall what you have done. </strong></span><br />
</span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong> I have my own little trick for explaining how this works: with Alzheimer’s,  the brain-gizmo that gathers new information starts to malfunction first, meaning that it either doesn’t store new information, or can’t retrieve it when it is needed &#8211; even if it did get stored.  This malfunction continues to get worse and worse, and only when it adversely affects the person’s ability to function normally in their daily life can it be considered a diagnosis of dementia. </strong></span></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> Don’t forget that dementia is the symptom, and what is causing the dementia is what the doctor will establish upon examination.  There are three causes:</span></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;"> 1) Alzheimer’s Disease,<br />
2) Vascular Dementia, and<br />
3) NOS (meaning “Not Otherwise Specified,” which refers to some other disease process).<br />
</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong> For the dementia to be considered Alzheimer’s, the patient will also have at least one of the 4 following afflictions:<br />
</strong><br />
<strong> 1) Aphasia,<br />
2) Apraxia,<br />
3) Agnosia, or<br />
4) Executive Functioning Difficulties.<br />
</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong> To expect someone with Alzheimer’s or a related dementia to show appreciation would equate to a diabetic not having a reaction to the birthday cake you made them, just because they liked the taste of it.  Your husband’s reaction is because of the disease; it is not a choice he has made, or something over which he has any control.  When we as caregivers become aware of this, we can focus our anger on the disease and its symptoms instead of our loved one.  Then, and only then, can we move forward and work with the person for whom we truly care.</strong></span></span></p>
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		<title>Will You End Up Like Terri Schiavo?</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="color: #000000;">Who will make the tough decisions for you when you no longer can?</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> I want to look at the difference between a power of attorney and a guardianship.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> How do those affect you?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> In the case that you or a loved one become incapacitated and can no longer make decisions on your own, this can effect you very deeply.<br />
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<span style="color: #000000;"> Let me explain.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> Powers of attorney for health care and property/financial decisions are relatively low cost way to decide which family member or trusted friend will have the legal authority to carry out your wishes, if you can no longer speak or act for yourself.</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><br />
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<span style="color: #000000;"><span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terri_Schiavo" target="_blank">Terri Schiavo&#8217;s</a> name was splashed across headlines for years for exactly this reason.<br />
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<span style="color: #000000;"> Terri didn&#8217;t have a power of attorney designating who she wanted to make healthcare decisions for her in the event she wasn&#8217;t able to make them herself. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> Her parents and husband waged war through years of legal battles&#8230; not to mention heartbreak, tears, and hard feelings.<br />
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<span style="color: #000000;"> While this is not as common for a young person (which is why Terri was prevalent in the papers), it is often the case that as we age, one obstruction or another keeps us from making decisions for ourselves.  Alzheimer&#8217;s is one such obstruction.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> I have seen families torn to shreds over the healthcare decisions of a loved one.<br />
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<span style="color: #000000;"> Don&#8217;t let your family be destroyed because you simply didn&#8217;t make your wishes known, or appoint someone to make those tough decisions for you.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> If you do not have power of attorney, or if your powers of attorney are not drafted properly and something happens that results in your inability to make decisions, your loved ones may later face costly court proceedings and court-supervised guardianship.<br />
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<span style="color: #000000;"> A court proceeding is not only expensive, but the person appointed as your guardian may not be the person whom you would have chosen yourself. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="color: #000000;"> Here&#8217;s what you must know: too many people are forced into a situation where a complete stranger is making life and death decisions on their behalf.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> Sometimes those decisions are what the person would have wanted, and other times, though the guardian tries, decisions are made that are completely the opposite.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> Would you want that for your loved one?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> If not, then a power of attorney might be right for you.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> To find out more about powers of attorney and guardianships, open your &#8220;Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Alzheimer&#8217;s But Were Afraid to Ask &#8211; Answers to Over 92 of the Most Frequently Asked Questions at the Alzheimer&#8217;s Resource  Center&#8221; booklets and read items 95 to 96.<br />
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<a href="http://www.alzheimersresourcekit.com/barron/resources/everythingaboutalz.html" target="_blank"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">www.AlzheimersResourceKit.com/barron/resources/everythingaboutalz.html</span></strong></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> Don&#8217;t let your healthcare wishes be a mystery to your loved ones.  Make them known.</span></span></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">If you have not signed up for the Alzheimer’s Resource Center, it is easy, informative and free. Just go to <a href="http://www.dallasmemorylawyer.com/" target="_blank"><strong>www.DallasMemoryLawyer.com</strong></a> type in your name and email address and you will have instant access to all of the materials to read online or to download and print.  You can also go to<strong> <a href="http://www.texaselderlawattorney.com/" target="_blank">www.TexasElderLawAttorney.com</a></strong> or give us a call at <strong>1-800-939-9093</strong> and we will sign you up right over the phone without any obligation what so ever.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Barron Law Firm</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Texas Elder Care Attorney</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Richard M. Barron</strong></span></p>
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